Emotional Wellness Month: How to Cope with Pediatric Cancer
Emotional Wellness Month: How to Cope with Pediatric Cancer
Emotional Wellness Month
How to Cope with Pediatric Cancer
When a child is diagnosed with cancer, it is challenging for the entire family. The very idea that you have to cope with pediatric cancer is frightening. You feel myriad emotions, like guilty, sad, scared, and anger, all at the same time. Learning how to navigate these emotions is essential to overall health and well-being, especially for families facing cancer.
Wellness content is everywhere we look, and it’s easy to feel even more overwhelmed by well-intentioned advice. For emotional wellness this October, we offer possible ways to help you work towards better emotional wellness. To be the best caretaker for others, taking care of yourself first is essential.
What exactly is emotional wellness?
Emotional wellness is a state of being in which one feels secure, supported, and connected. It is a state of mind in which one can cope with stress and manage emotions. It’s about not simply feeling happy but feeling all our emotions in a healthy manner. When we are emotionally well, we can cope with stress and setbacks, nurture our relationships, and pursue our goals. In short, emotional wellness helps us to live our best lives even in the face of adversity.
Sound complicated? It doesn’t have to be. There are many different strategies to improve your emotional health. Of course, you don’t need to do all these, but choosing practices that resonate with you can reduce stress and make a big difference in your well-being. Here are some strategies we hope will help you better cope with pediatric cancer.
Build resilience
Or, in other words, the ability to bounce back from difficulties. For families dealing with pediatric cancer, resilience almost becomes inevitable as they face new challenges and hardships daily. Continuing to build resilience will only help you and your loved ones. Here are a few ways to do it:
Practice gratitude
Take time for yourself each day
Explore your beliefs about the meaning and purpose of life. It might be helpful to talk to a trusted family member or a church leader in your community
Mindfulness
Simply being aware of all things happening in the present and not thinking about the future or the past. There are many recordings on apps like Calm and Headspace that can help guide you through these exercises.
Breathing exercises. Breathe in through your nose for 4 seconds, hold for 1, and exhale for 5 seconds. Repeating breathing exercises like this will force your mind and body to focus solely on the present.
Take a walk and notice your breathing and the sights around you. Note things in your head as you see them, almost like a “I spy” game. Even as thoughts enter your head, you can consider them like a cloud—acknowledge it but divert your attention back to the present and let the thought pass.
Practice mindful eating. Different treatments and stressors make foods less appetizing. To better enjoy food, note each bite’s different tastes and textures.
Do a body scan. Cancer alone and treatments will cause pain, numbness, or other uncomfortable feelings in the body. Doing a body scan can help your brain reconnect with the body. As you scan from head to toe, focus on the feeling of each part. There are many recordings on apps like Calm and Headspace that can help guide you through these exercises
Get quality sleep
Sleep is an underrated contributor to our well-being and can affect our emotional and physical health. To get better quality sleep, try getting up and going to bed at the same time (our bodies love a schedule). It also might help to limit technology use before bed and sleep in a dark, quiet place.
Strengthen your support system
Social connections have been shown to contribute to our health and even lengthen life.
Talk to someone who understands: It can be helpful to talk to someone who has been through a similar experience. In addition, many support groups are available for families of children with cancer. Here to Serve can help connect you with support groups.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help
Find an outlet
Giving your mind and body a way to release tension and process emotions is essential. Even during the busiest times. Here are a few ideas:
Journaling
Talking to a friend or counselor
Exercising
Striving for emotional wellness at Here to Serve
By taking steps to promote emotional wellness in our lives, we can improve our overall well-being and create happier, more fulfilling lives even during the most challenging times.
Here to Serve does the most to improve emotional wellness by providing you with a family care coordinator to help manage home life. They also connect you with various organizations, support groups, and resources that can contribute to your emotional wellness. Here to Serve offers home needs coordination, which can offload some of life’s everyday burdens from meals, errands, groceries, child and pet care, yard work, and more. In addition, financial support and fundraising assistance are available so you can spend more time with your family and what matters most to you. Learn more about the wide range of services we offer, and if you or someone you know needs support, get help today!
All information on this blog is for informational and educational purposes only. Always consult a medical provider in your particular area of need before making significant changes in your medical decisions or lifestyle.
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Here to Serve is excited to introduce our Advisory Board member, Dr. Judith Sato! 🎉
Dr. Judith K. Sato. M.D., is a nationally renowned researcher and pediatric oncologist who specialized in the treatment of bone tumors and cancers of the body’s extremities. She is Professor of Pediatrics Emeritus; Chair Emeritus, Department of Pediatrics; Chief, Division of Pediatric Hematology-Oncology Emeritus; Director, Musculoskeletal Tumor Program Emeritus, City of Hope National Medical Center in Duarte, California, a top ten US cancer center. Her research influenced a worldwide clinical cooperative group forming treatment standards for childhood cancers. Specifically, in addition to her prior responsibilities as director of the Musculoskeletal Tumor Program, she chaired the Developmental Therapeutics Liaison Committee for the international Children’s Oncology Group (COG).
Prior to joining City of Hope, Dr. Sato was clinical director and deputy head of the Division of Hematology/Oncology at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles (CHLA), where she founded a Bone and Extremity Tumor Program caring for children with sarcomas and other bone tumors. Dr. Sato received her medical degree from the University of Cincinnati, and completed her internship, residency and fellowships at CHLA. She has lectured nationally and internationally, and has published numerous papers on her promising research findings.